Before I scare off all you anal-retentive readers, let me explain. This article is not about anal sex; rather it's encouraging you to look at your and your partner's bottom as a sensual area of the body to be explored. Bums can be fun and one can derive much pleasure from it being caressed, squeezed, poked, stroked, licked, handled and prodded in a tender non-penetrative kind of way. The media's obsession with J-Lo's behind is proof enough that bums are an integral part of our bodies and sensuality and therefore should not be neglected.
To some this might seem obvious but you will be surprised at how many people ignore this lovely region. Many people actually prefer to be touched and fondled on their derrière as opposed to their chest, backs or even their genitals. For those of you who are a little weary of kissing ass, a great way to initiate bum-play would be taking a hot shower together or a romantic candle lit bubble bath. This way you can both get clean, comfortable and relaxed.
For foreplay techniques I suggest massaging (with or with out oil - preferably with), teasing, biting (lightly), kissing and yes even licking your partners bottom, we aren't talking rimming here but if you feel so inclined -- go for it (hey, to each their own). But bum play need not be limited to foreplay; it should be integrated every step of the way. There is little more satisfying than someone's hands stroking and gripping your ass while they are going in for the home run. Another sassy suggestion is to lightly push your finger around and partially in your partner's sphincter (make sure your nails are clean and trimmed). This may not sound too appealing but trust me when in the throws of passion the sensations are intense for both men and women. So the next time you and your honey are getting down, maximize your pleasure potential and incorporate a little bum-play.
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