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Seeing as premature ejaculation is one of the most commonly experienced sexual problems, it's likely that you have had to deal with this sensitive topic at some point in your sexual life.
If you're on the receiving end it might be nice to tell yourself that being inside you just feels so damn good that the boy just can't help himself from releasing so early. But after 4 or 5 insufficient sessions... you will probably start to think about your pleasure, or lack thereof. I mean, hey, even if he is a master in tongue work, highly skilled with his hands, why not improve his intercourse stamina?
How to broach this touchy subject? Screaming "you come way too fast" or starting to cry after another quickie will probably not attain the best results. The Naughty Girl Collective recommends talking to your trigger-happy lover outside of the bedroom in a comfortable and private environment. You don't even have to make reference to his lack of endurance. Say you read/heard about this thing whereby both of you could intensify your orgasmic experiences. A little white lie never hurt anyone.
Tell your honey that the next time you're doing the dirty he should really focus on the sensations coming from his penis and anticipate the sensation of impending orgasm. Never fear - this can be anticipated by all men, he might just need some practice. At that point, when he knows he is going to have an orgasm very soon - STIMULATION MUST STOP IMMEDIATELY. After one or two minutes his woody will soften slightly and stimulation can be resumed. This can be done over and over again during intercourse. The obvious benefit for the receiving partner is it gives her plenty of time to achieve her own satisfaction. And, your hunk of burnin' love gets two benefits: he participates in your increased satisfaction AND his orgasm, when it occurs, will be more intense than usual. Hmmm ... the Naughty Girl Collective just loves it when both partners benefit from a little bit of planning.
If you're on the giving end and want to try this tip we recommend that you still communicate to your partner before trying it out so that when you stop abruptly in mid-thrust she knows what's going on and can cooperate.
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