Takin' Charge

If you are among those who think that men should always be the sexual aggressors, while women lay back and passively enjoy the ride, then I’m terribly sorry to report, you are mistaken. There really is nothing sexier and more arousing than a woman who knows what she wants, what her partner wants, and how to satisfy both parties’ needs during a heated session of lovemaking. Adopting an attitude of confidence and assurance will certainly help you drive your man wild with passion. Men are totally enchanted by a take-charge kind of gal, so drop the insecurities and start getting jiggy - on your terms.

While exploring your newfound sexual persona during your next romp, here are a few things to keep in mind. A lot of men find it frustrating that they always have to initiate sex. In my opinion, women want to get naked just as often as men, but they are taught to suppress their sexual desires while waiting for Romeo to get the party started. Personally, the word wait is not in my vocabulary, especially when it comes to doing the nasty. I suggest that the next time you’re feeling hot and horny, approach your man and simply tell him that you need some serious loving. Don’t be afraid to express your desires with the use of graphic descriptions. Forbidden language can be quite a powerful ally. He will be surprised by your honesty, and utterly turned-on by your assertion.

Once you begin fooling around, be sure to be vocal about what you want, and also, what you are willing to give your lover. A common complaint among men is that women are too timid during lovemaking. If you want him to take a trip south of the border, and honestly, who doesn't want that, tell him! When you have been satisfied, ask lover boy exactly how you can please him. Or, if you’re feeling extra frisky, tell him what you are going to do, and exactly how you are going to do it. Then go to work.

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