Taking Matter Into Your Own Hands

If you're anything like me, you can appreciate the necessity of eating right, daily exercise, and most importantly, amazing orgasms on a regular basis. Now this is all fine and dandy in theory, but attaining these essential orgasms is slightly more difficult for us single folk. Not to worry, because there are a couple of options for the unhitched among us. You can resolve to live without the joy of coming while you wait patiently for a mate to appear. Or you can place your faith into your own two hands and get busy.

If you haven’t figured it out yet, I’m talking about self-fulfillment here, ladies and gentlemen. You know, charming the one-eyed snake, spinning the record -- you get the picture. I can’t stress enough how important masturbation is. First of all, spending some quality time downstairs will give you an excellent sense of what really turns your crank. This will not only benefit you in the present, but also it will allow you to expertly instruct future partners on how to truly make you cream. Secondly, with independence being all the rage now, can you really afford not to get jiggy with yourself?

There are numerous ways to approach masturbation. Some people just hit the panic button, experience a wonderful orgasm, and then get on with their day. Others prefer to take the time to really arouse themselves before they enter the pleasure palace. If you're really interested in "self-love", then this is the only way to go.

First, unwind from a hard day by letting the stress evaporate in the soothing waters of a warm bath. Scented bath oils, a pillow and calming music are a nice touch. Just sit back and enjoy the soothing environment you've created. Now take a fluffy towel and pat yourself down, moving into the bedroom. Let your fingers explore every sensitive part of your body. Move slowly, concentrating on those areas that most arouse you. For those of you lucky enough to have a toy, introduce it only after you've done a little manual exploration. Continue to pleasure yourself just before the point of orgasm. Let off for a minute allowing your heart rate to drop and your pelvic muscles to relax. Then start again. Repeat as long as you can take it -- and enjoy the payoff!

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