Remember that awful old saying "girls should be seen and not heard"? In my opinion, that's rubbish. In this day and age, it's definitely the vocal girl who gets ahead. This applies not only to everyday life, but to the bedroom as well. Injecting some sassy dirty talk into your sex life is sure to heat things up. More importantly, being able to seductively speak to your lover will get you exactly what you want, when you want it. Girls, and guys for that matter, the time has come to embrace the Chatty Kathy within!
The best way to approach dirty talk is to regard it as something that will turn your lover on and help them pleasure you as well. Wild words are definitely multi-purpose in this sense. What you say and how you say it depends on your overall comfort level with the whole concept of talking dirty. Your bedroom dialogue doesn't necessarily have to be "dirty" per se. You can talk during sex without having to have your mouth washed out afterwards. For the tongue-tied sisters out there, I suggest that you keep it nice and simple. When your lover is doing something that turns you on, let them know. Saying things like "I really enjoy when you kiss me there" or "It feels great when you touch me like that" are good ways to introduce a little word play into your sex routine. Your lover will be pleased that they are pleasuring you and excited by the sound of your sexy voice. They will also have a better sense of what gets your juices flowing, something which will be beneficial to both of you in future sessions.
If you're a fearless filly by nature, step it up a notch. Be explicit when you talk to your lover. Using "naughty" words for body parts, as opposed to the anatomical definitions, is generally forbidden in social contexts. In the bedroom, however, it's no holds barred! You have the ultimate freedom to be as dirty, daring and detailed as you want. If you're comfortable using raunchy words, by all means, get your verbal jiggy on! Another thing you can try is calling, screaming, or simply saying your lover's name while in the midst of a passionate round of sex. Most men find this to be an incredible turn on, and the more you turn him on, the more likely he is to want to knock your socks off!
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