How Many Licks?

In my humble opinion, the only thing better than oral sex is truly amazing, body rocking, soul shaking oral sex. What's the difference, you ask? Well, almost any guy can figure out the basics of pussy licking and make their partner come. Let me tell you, though, it takes a special man with special skills to deliver his woman the ultimate oral experience. If your honey hasn't exactly been, uh, mesmerized by your trips down under, perhaps it's time to spice up your oral routine. Good oral sex is a matter of paying attention to details, giving your partner what she wants, and communicating. I assure you the following steps will have you going down with style in no time.

Surprisingly, many women are under the impression that their partners don't enjoy going down and just do it because they feel obligated. If your lady believes this, she may be too pre-occupied with feeling guilty to truly relax and delight in the luxuries of the oral loving you're providing. This is where a little encouraging dirty talk will come in handy. Throughout foreplay, continually tell your honey how sexy she is and how much you appreciate her body. Not only will your positive words boost her ego, but they will get her extremely aroused as well. When she is appropriately turned on, tell your lover how excited the thought of going down on her makes you. Ask her softy if she'll allow you to orally pleasure her. The more turned on you appear by the prospect of going down on her, the more comfortable and relaxed she'll be. Best of all, she'll be able to focus exclusively on the immense pleasure she's deriving from your enthusiastic tongue.

Now before you start licking away, you want to ensure that she is properly moist. Slowly kiss her stomach, thighs, and butt. When she is extremely aroused, begin licking her clit with your whole tongue using soft, long strokes. It is important to start slowly and gradually increase your pace. Play around until you find a licking style that she likes. Women usually need consistent tongue rhythms in order to orgasm, so don't change your style once she has gotten into the groove of things. If your honey is taking a while to orgasm, you might try vaginally penetrating her with your tongue while you continue to stimulate her clit with your finger. Caress her nipples and stomach with your free hand. By targeting all of these erogenous zones at once, you will certainly send your lover into a truly orgasmic orbit.

Try to remember that every woman is different in terms of her likes and dislikes. The more questions you ask, the better chance you'll have of covering all the bases. If you're not sure what oral technique most appeals to her, simply ask her. By being vocal, you are illustrating to your sweetie that you are an attentive and caring lover. Now there really isn't anything more sexually appealing than that, is there?

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