Well, dear readers, you're in for a treat this week. Please forgive this departure to the "nuts and bolts" approach, but this one is just too good to resist. This week, we turn the tables a little and introduce you to the wonders of female ejaculation.
Before experimenting in the bedroom, make sure that both you and your honey know that this is not a win-or-lose affair. Not all women will be capable (or even want to be capable) of female ejaculation. Simply relax with your partner and give it a shot. If it works for you, great; if not, with any luck you'll have learned something along the way. And, as always, communication between partners is key.
The first step in this little adventure is to bring the female to a heightened state of arousal. You know your partner better than I do, so it's all up to the two of you. My personal choice would be a vigorous round of cunnilingus. Remain at the tunnel of love until she's visibly aroused. If there's any uncertainty, then just stay put. I don't think she'll mind.
Moving right along... It's time for you to come up for air and have a little chat. Place two fingers inside the vagina. Now begin to feel around about 1.5 - 2 inches inside, along the upper wall. Slowly explore this region with a "come hither" motion. You're looking for the elusive G-Spot. At this stage, you've got to talk with your partner. Some women have a good idea where it is, others don't. One thing is for sure you'll never find it alone. She may notice heightened sensation in that area of the vagina or a sensation that she has to urinate.
Once you've found it, repeat the "come hither" motion, concentrating on the area you've discovered together. Some women will prefer a firm massage, while others will crave something more gentle. Just follow her instructions. Descend and resume your oral ministrations while continuing with this motion.
The rest should follow quite naturally.
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