Ho Ho Ho, Merry XXXmas!

With the holiday season upon us, what better time for us to embrace the idea of giving rather than receiving? In fact, Girl Friday is definitely one of those people who loves getting and giving, so round up your favorite holiday elf for something a little more racy than a smooch under the mistletoe.

Giving can be understood in so many different ways, but Girl Friday likes to interpret it as presents, presents and more presents. But, let us not forget that gift-giving is only as good as enjoying the gift will be. Of course it's not wrong to give someone a gift that you will use-- I'm talking about more than just a schmaltzy Thighmaster. When gifts have that X-rated factor, it's fun for everybody.

Now, assuming that you're completely clueless about what's out on the market, let's break down a few of the most basic sextoys for the beginner:

Vibrators: God's and Doc Johnson's gift to women everywhere. These babies come in all shapes, colors, materials and sizes. Vibrators are NOT interchangeable with dildos (which do not vibrate). There's lots to choose from on the market, but you should consider the kind of stimulation you enjoy. If you're strictly a fan of the clitoral, focus on toys which stimulate that area like the Pocket Rocket. But, if you prefer penetration there are plenty of toys are meant to be inserted (don't forget the lube). Also, there are electric vibes which are much stronger as compared to more portable and discreet battery-operated vibes. If you like discretion, there are plenty of small vibes on the market--after all, it is getting a bit hard for me to continue explaining away the industrial capacity electric vibrator in my room as a massager.

Dildos: These most often come in the shape of a penis and are good for all sorts of penetration--vaginal, anal, nasal (if that's your thing). For those who enjoy realistic looking rubber, there are ones with veins et al as well as cleaner, sleeker ones for the more minimalistic woman. The most impressive dildo I've ever seen certainly had to be the two-foot, two-headed iridescent purple vibrator with ridges for her pleasure. That's certainly a Friday night and a half. These do not vibrate, but do offer an array of interesting sizes and materials (rubber, latex, silicone)

Butt plugs: Again, there are a wide variety of sizes, but the purpose of all of them are pretty self-explanatory. Use to stimulate the nerves in the rectum for those who enjoy anal play. An absolute must for anyone aching to try anal sex.

Various sexual paraphernalia: Go nuts with strap-ons, lube, massage oils, edible underwear, kinky condoms, racy lingerie, handcuffs, ben-wa balls, body paint, etc. Do whatever feels good and have fun with your honey.

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