Come one, come all

Perhaps Girl Friday is simply bemoaning the painful lack of sex in her life, but last week's selfloving theme just gets bumped up to the next level this week. Ladies and gentlemen, masturbation (i.e. sex for one) is no longer something to be ashamed of. No, indeedy. This week you're going to take your tiger by the tail and show your mate how to really make it purr.

Oftentimes we think of masturbation as just a quick and easy means of fulfilling immediate sexual desires. Au contraire! Girl Friday recommends masturbating not simply as a metaphorical drive-thru meal, but rather as a long and lusty main course.

Presumably, some of you may be shy about masturbating in front of your mate because of the fact that masturbation is often done alone and away from other people. I say bollocks to that. Liberate your pleasure and masturbate to your heart's content! You see, by masturbating with our lovers present, we only show them ways that they can better please us. And, of course, there's always the old stand-by of men lusting after women who know what they want and how to get it.

For this activity, I suggest not merely thinking of masturbating as a means to an eventual quick orgasm, but rather as a full-blown (no pun intended) sensual experience for you and your mate.

Girl Friday certainly understands the joys of toys, so don't be shy about breaking out your favorite vibrator or two-headed, twelve-inch iridescent cock for extra fun in the sun. For the most part, I assume that we're all open-minded mature adults who aren't threatened by pieces of molded latex or silicone so I would not worry too much about your mate feeling intimidated about your battery-operated boyfriends. Then again, perhaps I assume too much. At any rate, you might consider discussing the matter before pulling your toys out ready, willing and able. A good friend of mine suggested showing the toy to your boy first and then slowly easing him into the idea of incorporating it into your games.

Lay back and get comfy. If you need stimulation to get you in the mood, rent some porn videos or read some erotica. When you and your mate are ready to roll, situate yourselves in full view of each other and begin touching yourself. While you're masturbating, your mate should be doing the same thing. And, remember, don't get too carried away that you forget about watching your mate's technique. Look at how (s)he's touching him/her self. Is it different than the way you do it? Are you able to incorporate that into your lovemaking? Make sure that you're also touching yourself in the way that you most enjoy--contrary to popular belief, lovers are trainable and do learn by example.

I think you'll figure out what to do as the situation progresses.

Till next week, meet all your needs and desires.

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