You Go, Girl

Maybe I've seen Charlie's Angels one too many times, but Girl Power should definitely be your motto of the week. This week, I suggest that you go and harness that pussy power into something positive for yourself which will serve to make you a happier, lustier person.

First off, it's of paramount importance that you start this week off by making yourself feel good about just being you. Look into the mirror and admire your shining physical attributes. Pick some features of yours that you really like and spend time just celebrating them. Whether you've been blessed with flawless skin, beautiful eyes or gorgeous hair, it's time we all took a moment to truly recognize what babes we are.

Next, move onto the inside. What about your personality makes you proud and happy to be you? A great sense of humor? Sharp wit? Incredible time management? Whatever it may be, pat yourself on the back and give yourself permission to be proud of yourself.

Girl Friday definitely recognizes that people get busy and schedules get hectic, but set just one day aside for yourself and you'll really have the time to catch your breath. Even if you need to call in sick one day, take time for yourself. The key to this week is SELFISH, SELFISH, SELFISH. On this day of freedom, do what you want to do, not what you feel you should do. Nobody ever got hurt because the dirty dishes were left in the sink for one more day. What you should do is something you enjoy. Call your girlfriends up for brunch. See a movie. Take a nap. Do whatever.

On that note, I think that it's also important that you do something for yourself at least once a day. It could be something as simple as a hot cappuccino in the middle of the day. Of course, I would recommend something a little more drastic like belly dancing lessons or yoga. And for those of you who claim not to have enough time, pshaw! Make time to care for you.

The point to all of this is that when you're relaxed, happy and cared for, you have the energy and inclination to care for others better. Obviously, this extends to all aspects of your life, especially your sex life.

What is the next obvious step to truly appreciating yourself? Self-love -- duh. Whip out your favorite toy or prop piece and take time to wank yourself off thoroughly. Too often in our busy schedules, it's all about the quickie. Not so this time, sister. You've got all the time in the world, so use it. Stroke with abandon and enthusiasm. You don't have to please anybody but yourself today.

Now, what you should do on your day off is carry that spirit of sharing onto your mate. Whether that means him/her a massage once they get home or giving some really great head, it's all about karma. When you give, you receive as well. Shower him/her with the same sort of affection and attention you've lavished on yourself all day. I think you'll find it will pay off in the end. And when bedtime rolls around, harness that femme power you've built up all day and work it, girl!

Until next week, meet all your needs and desires

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