Ain't Nothin but a G-Thang

Ah, the G-spot! This is the stuff of dreams and fairy tales. The stories, the myths, the legends! You've heard the anecdotes about the goddesses among us who were able to ejaculate with G-spot stimulation while hog-tying a steer with one hand and knitting an afghan with the other. And what about the one whose stream of ejaculate was able to propel a slew of men across room? But, if you're like most women, you haven't really found it and the promises made by women's magazines for fulfillment, enlightenment and glowing skin with your first G-spot orgasm continue to elude you.

Don't worry, girls. This ain't rocket science. All it takes is a little bit of patience and a lot of masturbation

First, a bit of history. The G-spot was coined by Dr. Ernest Graftenburg who noted that stimulation to this area caused ejaculation. Since then, women have been fretting over this mythic spot. The composition of the ejaculate is not urine, but is similar to that of sperm with protein and some urea. Perfectly safe stuff.

Ok, now the interesting bit on how to embark on your journey to G-spot heaven. You'll be able to find your G-spot with more ease if you are aroused because the tissue swells with blood in the area. The G-spot itself is spongy tissue located on the front wall of the vagina behind the pubic bone (though the location will differ).

After lots of self-manipulation you can go treasure hunting. As always, I suggest lubricant though it's not really necessary. Lay on your back and fold your knees to your chest to shorten the vagina. Insert your longest and most dexterous digit which is most likely your middle finger, but let me not presume. After this exercise, flicking someone off will have a whole new meaning.

Once your finger is in, curl your finger towards the front of your body and make a come-hither gesture. Try just above the pubic bone. If you're feeling nothing, try around the area to the left or right. If it helps, try pushing the lower half of your stomach down with your other hand to increase contact. Also, feeling around for a pulse inside the area could help pinpoint it.

Rub your finger over the spot and feel if it has a rough, raised texture to it. If so, you've probably hit the money. Push on it. Does it feel like you have to pee? Good, because it's basically smack on top of your bladder. Try stimulating it and getting used to how it feels. The best sort of stimulation will be pressure as opposed to simply rubbing it. And don't feel like the G-spot will be the only stimulation you need to orgasm. Couple it up with some clitoral attention too.

If you are able to spray, congratulations! If not, no worries. You'll soon be able to find it with no problem and realize that G-spot loving is nice for more intense orgasms, but it's hardly the soul-shaking, life-altering, be-all end-all cure-all that it's been hyped up to be. Happy hunting!

Until next week, meet all your needs and desires.

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