Dress To Impress

Roleplaying games with your mate can add a dash of spice because being naughty is nice when you're looking for something new. There is something sorely lacking in the amount of time we actually get to daydream let alone act out our silly, sexy or just plain sleazy fantasies.

First of all, it's important for you to pinpoint any one fantasy that you'd like to act out. Lusting to be the truant schoolgirl? How about the naughty, night nurse? Often, similar themes will come up as you fantasize and you should be aware of them. For example, do you like being submissive? Playful? Dominant? Talk things over with your lover, because chances are he'll have plenty of things in mind for you to act out as well.

Once you've decided on a scenario, have fun with it. Invest in some accessories. If you're going to be the international undercover spy splurge a little on a slinky dress. Besides, who couldn't use an excuse to go shopping? Also, a safety word is important here because things might just go a little farther than planned and being comfortable is paramount.

Okay, here's the tricky part. Depending on what your fantasy is, think about taking it outside of the house especially if you can avoid being arrested. For example, if you are the mysterious stranger, plan to meet him at a bar. Pretend not to know each other. Flirt shamelessly. For an extra zing, flirt with other men around you. There's a direct link between jealousy and the libido. Really let yourself go into this. This is playtime. You're not you, you're somebody else. Act as bold as you dare. Do the things that your mother would balk at. And, you're still in the bar...

Finally, take your lover home (or wherever) and play out the rest of your scene in more erotic detail. If you are the overbearing boss, then do your part. Order him around. Make him grovel. Are you the disciplining teacher? Punish him for all those bad, bad things he's done. Wide-eyed, innocent virgin? Play coy, hard to get and naive. Saucy schoolgirl? Swear, smoke and you'll be going the right way for a smacked bottom.

I think you'll find that roleplaying is indeed a fun and sexy way to broaden your sexual horizons while still keeping steady on with the one you love.

Till next week, meet all your needs and desires.

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