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Since I started having sex, I’d say the bulk of my orgasms have been on top. During a conversation with some close friends recently, I was shocked to hear that they were very intimidated by the position. Reasons ranged from insecurities about their naked torsos and facial expressions to questions about insertion methods. That prompted the question ‘What are our motivations for having sex?’

For men, it seems that animalistic behavior comes naturally. They’re not supposed to be able to control themselves; therefore, grunts, groans, twisted-up faces, weird jerking motions etc. are excused. More power to the boys. Women seem to waste much more time thinking about looking sexy than being sexy.

The secret to looking natural and irresistible in the sack is simply letting these inhibitions go. Be as wild and visceral as you can. Do what comes naturally. Take charge and tell your partner to roll over. Use your hand to guide his penis. Get on top and grind. Do what feels good. The beauty of this position is that you control the pace, level of penetration, and amount of pressure applied to that magical little clitoris of yours. I guarantee you’ll get carried away and silly little notions about appearance will fade away in the face of your mounting arousal .

If you still aren’t ready for the 90 degree angle, consider this. Get your man to sit on the side of the bed or on a chair and straddle him that way. This way you’re still maintaining the intimacy of face to face contact. You can work on the pace and motions together and there is even more mind-blowing friction.

Inhibition as defined in the dictionary as Conscious or unconscious restraint of a behavioral process, a desire, or an impulse. Don’t let superficial inhibitions repress your sexual behavior, desires and impulses. Let them go, be free and have fun.

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