Meet Me Half Way...

In a perfect world we could design our partner and tailor them to fulfil our every need. They would be the ideal height and weight, laugh at all our jokes, and cater to our every desire (especially our sexual ones). But let's face it, we live in a far from perfect world and we should consider ourselves lucky if our partner loves and supports us. It's only natural that sometimes you may that your sexual appetite is very different from that of your partners. One person usually finds themselves wanting a second helping while the other can barely finish their appetiser. After awhile all of this can cause stress and frustration which in turn can often lead to hurt feelings, anger, alienation, and in the end neither partner is happy.

So how do we tackle this little conundrum? Communication is key, it's important to acknowledge the problem but don't harp on it. Address the topic with sensitivity and patience. If it's been an issue since day one perhaps it's time to realise that you both have different expectations. Relationships are often about compromise and this is no different. So talk openly and honestly about your feelings; you'll be happily surprised with the results. Then again sexual desire can be adversely affected by stress, depression and fatigue. Is there a lot of stress at home, at work? Are you getting enough sleep? Be aware of the stresses in your life and take a break every now and then. Take a weekend away somewhere romantic and rejuvenate your sexual stamina. Or if that's a little much, to combat fatigue try making love before work rather than after a long stressful day. Rise and shag!

Or perhaps you need just need a little jumpstart. Staying in for a quiet night of movies, popcorn and some snuggling on the couch? Instead of opting for the Hollywood blockbuster why not rent a steamy and frisky adult video instead? Nothing turns up the heat more than a hot and sultry sex scene, I'll wager that you and your honey will be creating a few of your own hot and heavy scenes in no time. Toys, gadgets, creams and other sexual devices could come in handy in this kind of situation as well. You would be surprised at how many fun and sassy devices that are available that could heighten your intensity and turn on your lover.

This naughty girl dares you and your honey to try out some of these suggestions and put your appetites to the test, something tells me that both of you might want to skip the main course all together and go straight for dessert!

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