Let the Games Begin

Let's face it, as much as we all love sex and appreciate the pleasure and fulfilment it brings, it can get a little dull and monotonous if we don't switch things up every now and then. Some of us are adventurous and already incorporate toys, nick-naks, and patty whacks into our sexual trysts but others may be a little more bashful about sporting a gimp mask or playing with a saucy neon vibrator. For those of you who are a little shy and want to start out with something simple yet sensationally sexy, this naughty girl suggests dressing up and performing a little role-play.

Costumes aren't just kid's play, they can be easily incorporated into the bedroom and help set the stage for one really exciting show. Dressing up can be quite a turn on. You and your partner can experience the thrill of living out a fantasy. Imagine sleeping with your favourite fictional character or celebrity now you can! Slipping into a new identity or persona allows you and your partner to experience the illicit thrill of sex with somebody new without any of the negative repercussions of an affair or bringing somebody new into the bedroom. What better way to spice things up then to sport a sultry blond wig a la Marilyn Monroe or perhaps dressing up like a fire fighter and putting out some of your own steamy fires?

Still feeling like you may get a case of stage fright? Role-playing can actually help you combat some of your inhibitions and release a sexier spicier side to yourself; after all it's not you making all those naughty demands - it's your alter ego. For those of you who are a little shy about donning a full-on costume, ease yourself in with something basic. Just slipping into a pair of naughty ultra-high boots or stilettos can heat things up and put you in the mood to alter your bedroom persona. How about sporting an apron (kiss the cook) and nothing else? You could incorporate some edible items and start cooking up some of your own home made recipes. There are also the tried but true sultry scenarios of doctor and nurse, boss and secretary, teacher and student, Tarzan and Jane (ropes and all). Erotic boutiques sell costumes and props of this sort or you can rent or buy from costume stores. But this is only the tip of the iceberg, as you can see there are a delicious variety of possibilities when it comes to incorporating dressing up and role-plays into your boudoir. But take the time and come up with something the two of you will get all hot and bothered about. Heck, half the fun is talking about it with your lover and deciding what you want to be. Once you're in your role, trust your partner and go with it. Nothing kills the mood more than a partner who's not playing along. So next time you and your honey are taking off your clothes, why not try putting on a different set? Lights, camera, action!

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