Variety is the Spice of Life

When you first start sleeping with somebody it doesn't matter where you do it, it's exciting, intense and new. You try to impress them; they try to impress you; you try to figure out how your bodies work together, and this process is no doubt exhilarating. But at some point things can become comfortable, convenient, and yes even a little boring. Settling into a more comfortable relationship is fine, but that's no excuse to let your sex life slide into a routine of same place, same position ho hummery. Is this hitting a little too close to home? Never fear the Naughty Girl Collective is here to help you shake things up and bring a little spring fever into your relationship.

No you don't have to ditch your partner for an exotic stranger; perhaps a little change of scenery will do the trick and get your pulses racing again. Taking sex outside the bedroom is an easy antidote to the bedroom blahs. You can do it virtually anywhere that tickles your fancy: the backyard at midnight, a secluded patch of grass, a public bathroom (feels so illicit), the beach, the woods (watch that poison ivy!), the library, your car … you name it. Just dreaming up new places to get down and dirty with your partner will start to juice things up. You can plan in advance and create a little sexy scenario, or surprise your honey when they least expect it by seducing them in your chosen location.

Sex in new places is exciting; it's a combination of the thrill of doing something naughty, the risk of getting caught, and the stimulation of a change of scenery. Not only that, but because you can't be as vocal as in the privacy of your own bedroom, having your partner murmuring or whispering in your ear as you go at it can be deliciously intimate. In addition to the thrill factor, sex in strange places can also lead you to discover all new angels and positions, because you have to work with the space you've got. Want to take it up a notch? Dress up and play out a little fantasy to suit the location.

If all this sounds a little daunting, it needn't be … you can up the sexual ante without ever leaving the house. Try indulging in a lusty romp with your partner in places you haven't done it before within the privacy of your own home: the kitchen table, the counter, the hallway, the laundry room - even going for it on the couch can shake things up.

Not only will getting it on in public add some zing to your carnal routine, but it can be a relationship booster too. It's a sexy inside joke and having a risky adventure a-deux gives you a strong sense of being in it together and can be a very bonding experience. So look around, pick a spot and get bonding!

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